One major challenge within happiness is loneliness. The more I've learned about happiness, the more I've come to believe that loneliness is a terrible, common, and important obstacle to consider.
According to Elizabeth Bernstein's recent Wall Street Journal piece, "Alone or Lonely," the rate of loneliness in the U.S. has doubled over the past thirty years. About 40% of Americans report being lonely; in the 1980s, it was 20%. One reason: more people live alone (27% in 2012; 17% in 1970). But being alone and being lonely aren't the same.
A while back, after reading John Cacioppo's fascinating book Loneliness, I posted some counter-intuitive facts about loneliness, and several people responded by asking, "Okay, but what do I do about it? What steps can I take to feel less lonely?"
I then read another fascinating book, Lonely—a memoir by Emily White about her own experiences and research into loneliness. White doesn't attempt to give specific advice about how to...
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